We Need the Church to Serve (Rom. 12.1-8)

Scripture: Romans 12.1-8

Translation: ^12.1So, I urge you, brothers and sisters, because of God’s mercies, to offer your bodies to God as as a living, holy, pleasing sacrifice, your reasonable service. ²And don’t be being conformed to this age; instead, be being transformed in the renewing of your mind in order that you can prove what the will of God is, the [will] that’s good and pleasing and perfect. ³You see, I’m saying to everyone who is among you by means of the grace given to me to not think more highly than what it is necessary to think, but to think in such as way as to think accurately, for each [of you] as God measured a measure of faith, ⁴because just as in one body we have many body-parts, and all the body-parts don’t have the same function, ⁵so we, the many, are one body in Christ, and as far as each one is concerned, [we are] the body parts of one another, ⁶having the different/distributed spiritual gifts according to the grace given to you, and if [you have] prophecy,  [use it] according to the proportion of faith, ⁷and if [you have] service, [act] in line with service, and if [you are] the one teaching, [act] in line with teaching, ⁸and if [you’re] the one urging/encouraging, [act] in line with urging/encouragement. The person sharing, [act] in line with generosity. The one leading, [act] in line with passion. The one showing mercy, [act] in line with cheerfulness.

Interpretation

1.      Structure

a.       Instruction Given

                                                              i.      Part 1: Offer your bodies as living sacrifices

                                                            ii.      Part 2:

1.      Negatively: Don’t be conformed to this age

2.      Positively: Be changed in your mind to prove for sure what God’s will is

b.      Instruction Explained

                                                              i.      Overall

1.      Negatively: like this age, don’t think about yourself too highly

2.      Positively: be transformed, think about yourself accurately

                                                            ii.      Specific reason to be humble and think about yourself accurately:

1.      Christians are one body, each part belonging to the others

2.      The body-parts of that one body have different functions

                                                          iii.      Implication of overall explanation and its specific basis: Use your spiritual gifts for the sake of the body as given by God

2.      Themes

a.       One Body with many body-parts

b.      Transformation vs. conformation

c.       Serving God/temple worship imagery

d.      Spiritual gifts

e.       Urging/encouragement

f.       Matching your actions with your gifts

3.      Doctrines

a.       The church is a unity with diversity in Christ

b.      God gives each Christian at least one special gift by the Holy Spirit

c.       Christian worship is not just about singing and hearing sermons and praying and hanging out, it is about living for God with your whole life

d.      Christians need to use their spiritual gifts when they are serving in their spiritual function, they need to use the gifts given to them in worship to God

e.       The will of God is good, pleasing, and perfect

f.       Christian transformation/sanctification involves the renewing of the mind

Applications

1.      Outline

a.       Live for God in General

                                                              i.      These first two versed need to apply to all areas of our lives, which includes our participation in the Body of Christ, we need to be doing this and having this happen not just at school or at home, but in the church. So, if you really want to give your whole life to God in worshipful service of Him, you will have to do that as it relates to the church too

b.      Live for God in the Church

                                                              i.      Paul actually clarifies that what He really wants to apply what he says in Rom. 12.1-2 to is how we think about ourselves as it relates to our gifting and function in the Body of Christ. In vv.9ff, Paul will actually go on to apply 12.1-2 to the church being a loving family and loving and humble group of people, and in ch.13 to how we interact with the government and rulers, and in ch.14-15 about how we respond to different convictions, values, or sensibilities in the church.

c.       Thus, you need the church to fully live for God (since totally living for God means living for God in and as a part of the church)…

                                                              i.      Because one of the ways you offer yourself to God as a living, holy, and pleasing sacrifice as act of service to God is by serving God’s people with the gifts He’s given you by His Holy Spirit

                                                            ii.      Because one of the ways that you don’t get conformed to this present age is by not thinking of yourself too highly as it relates to your spiritual gifts

                                                          iii.      Because one of the ways you get transformed in the renewing of your minds and know and do the will of God is by thinking correctly about yourself as it relates to the gifts and functions God gave you in the church

                                                          iv.      Because one of the ways you don’t get conformed to the world and get transformed in you thinking to do the will of God is by thinking about yourself as part of the body, and not merely as an individual, or not merely as a cell in a sea of corporate identity

1.      You don’t belong only to you, you belong to the Body

2.      You don’t only exist as random church members, but church members with specific gifts, roles, purposes, and functions.

d.      Related Questions:

                                                              i.      How do you use your spiritual gifts to serve God by serving the Church?

1.      Be humble, not cocky

2.      Know what your gifts are, don’t be ignorant or apathetic

3.      Use your Spiritual gifts to fulfill your function, not your own power or intelligence

                                                            ii.      What are the spiritual gifts?

1.      There are lots of spiritual gifts

2.      Some of them are:

a.       Prophecy

b.      Serving, administration of resources

c.       Teaching

d.      Preaching/urging

e.       Sharing

f.       Leading

g.      Being compassionate, caring for the poor

2.      Questions

a.       What do you think it would mean to offer your whole live to God as living, holy, and pleasing sacrifice? Name of few different areas of your life and talk about how you could live for God in those areas.

b.      In what ways do you feel like the world is pushing you to think and act the way it wants? How are the ways God wants you to think and act different? Be specific.

c.       What spiritual gifts and/or functions do you think you have in this church body? What about the global church?

d.      Do you feel like you have been serving and blessing our church and even the wider church with your life, or do you feel like you have been more focused on only your own personal desires and growth?

e.       Do you feel like you are a part of the church or are just an independent person who follows God?

f.       If you know what spiritual gifts God has given you, do you use the gifts of the Holy Spirit to serve the church or do you only use your own strength, intelligence, and skill?

Illustrations/Explanations

1.      The appendix, it has a function, but for a long time no one was sure what it did, and in fact people still are not sure, but it does serve a purpose. For a long time, people thought that your tonsils were useless body parts, but now doctors try to avoid taking out your tonsils except for severe cases, because they are so important. In the same way, all of you are important, and other people and maybe even you yourself might not know yet what purpose you serve in the body, but God has placed you in the body for a reason, and we need you just like you need us.

2.      Esther, she is on missions serving the women, encouraging them and aiming to bring deep emotional healing into their lives, she may not realize it, but I see that she has been so gifted in that area. She does things that are so conducive to achieving her aims, and it comes naturally to her. And it comes naturally because the Holy Spirit is in her and working through her. 

We Need the Church to Grow (Eph. 4.11-16)

Scripture: Ephesians 4.11-16

Translation: ¹¹And He gave the apostles, and the prophets, and the evangelists, and the pastors and teachers, ¹²for the sake of getting the holy people completely ready for the work of ministry, for the edification of the Body of Christ, ¹³until we all attain to the unity of the faith and of the knowledge of the Son of God, to a mature man, to the measure of the full-growth of the fullness of Christ, ¹⁴so that we won’t be babies any more, who get thrown around and carried around by every wind of teaching in accordance with the trickiness of men, in accordance with the deviousness aimed at the scamming of deception,  ¹⁵and [so that] by being truthful, we will grow in love with respect to all things into Him, Who is the Head, Christ, ¹⁶from Whom the whole body that’s joined and united together through every ligament of support according to the in-working in a measure of each and every single body part achieves the growth of the body resulting in the edification of itself in love.

Interpretation

1.      Structure

a.       Eph. 4.7-16: Gifts to the Church

                                                              i.      Gifts to believers in the church

                                                            ii.      Fulfilling Scripture by Christ giving gifts

                                                          iii.      Gifts to the Church (vv.11-16)

1.      Extended

¹¹And He gave the apostles,

                          and the prophets,

                          and the evangelists,

                          and the pastors and teachers,

¹²for the sake of getting the holy people completely ready for the work of ministry,

for the edification of the Body of Christ,

¹³until we all attain to the unity of the faith

                                                   and of the knowledge of the Son of God,

                               to a mature man,

                               to the measure of the full-growth of the fullness of Christ,

¹⁴so that we won’t be babies any more,

               who get thrown around

               and carried around by every wind of teaching

                          in human trickiness,

                          in deviousness aimed at the deceptive scamming,

¹⁵and [so that] by being genuine in love, we will grow with respect to all things into Him,

Who is the Head,

Christ,

¹⁶from Whom the whole body       \/ \/ \/                     achieves the growth of the body

that’s joined

and united together through every supporting ligament

according to the in-working in a measure of each and every single body part

resulting in the edification of itself in love.

2.      Simplified

A         Main action:    Jesus gave the apostles, prophets, evangelists, pastors, and teachers

B         Main intention:

Negatively: so that we wouldn’t be immature and duped into false teaching

Positively: so that we would grow into Christ to become fully mature and loving

           

2.      Themes

a.       Love

b.      Growth, maturity, perfection,

c.       Body/Body Parts

d.      Gifts

e.       Church

f.       Delegation/training/equipping

g.      Truth vs. deception

h.      Edification

i.        The Parts and The Whole

3.      Doctrines

a.       Jesus is generous and gives the church not just individual gifts but corporate gifts

b.      Jesus wants His Body to be healthy, mature, and growing

c.       Pastors are not supposed to do everything, they are supposed to get the church ready to do everything

d.      All believers should benefit from all other believers, that is all believers have ministry to do

Applications

1.      You need the church to grow, because you need pastors, teachers, evangelists, prophets,

a.       It’s kind of awkward for me to preach this, but the truth is you need the church, because you can only get pastored in the church. In fact, the church as a whole, Christians in general would not grow into mature Christians or in a mature Body of Christ without the gifts that Jesus gave to the church, the gifts are the people He gave, the Apostles, prophets, evangelists, pastors, and teachers.

b.      God have me, and others like me and others with different callings than me to the church for the sake of the church growing to become strong, healthy, and mature. You need these people, so that you don’t get sucked up into bad and blasphemous theology and lies and deceivers

c.       But He didn’t just give me and others like me to protect you and make sure you don’t stay baby Christians forever, but so that I can help you and me together grow as the church in loving one another and becoming mature in every way, in resembling Jesus in all aspects of our church and lives.

d.      But the way that Jesus made us, and the way He wants us to do that, is not by doing everything on our own. Or just leading the charge, per se, but by equipping you and training you and getting you ready to do the work that Jesus wants you to do by the Holy Spirit for God’s Glory.

e.       My job is not to do all your jobs. My job is to help you know what your jobs are and how God wants you to do your jobs and how you can maybe even get better at your job. A pastor is not a one many band, He is a music teacher or conductor

f.       For the record, apostle is not a role you can have today, regardless of what some people want to call themselves, and regardless of whether they can do miracles or not, it is a well established Christian understanding that while there are in some respects people who can be understand to have replaced the apostles, they are not apostles. Apostles were special men called personally by Jesus in the flesh to preach the Gospel and start the church, not start churches, but start the church!

2.      You need the church to grow, because you need other readied believers

a.       The whole point of Jesus giving the church pastors and teachers and evangelists and prophets and the apostles was for you and me to get prepared by those men to serve Jesus in a ministry, and ministry that will include ministry for the saints

b.      Sometimes when you are young like you are, in middle school, highschool, or even in college, it is easy to let pressure, and what other people think about you or about Jesus, or even sometimes what you think would be cool or impressive keep you from embracing how God has created you, and the ministry Jesus has give you, and the gifts the Holy Spirit is empowering in you. look, I know, I was in Junior High too at one point, and I let what I thought would be cool, and what I thought I wanted to do control me far too much. Maybe you’re really outgoing and people love you, but people mock you for it, or someone you think is cool is not like that, embrace being who God made you, do your ministry.

c.       And it is true that all of you, all of us, have ministry to do both outside and inside the church. Now while you may have a different ministry to do at different times in your life, God has called each of you to tell people about Jesus and help bring them into the family. So, today in small group, there will be two questions, one will ask you to talk about whether you feel like you have been prepared and are ready to go tell people about Jesus, invite them to church, etc.; and the other question will be whether you feel called to a particular ministry, and how I can help you get ready to do it, if you’re not ready yet, and how I can help you get better at it, if you can do it, but you want to get really good at it.

d.      You need the church, because you need to be ministered to by other believers. You need them to serve you, to encourage you, to strengthen you, to teach you, etc. you can become a mature Christian without other Christians, Jesus has structured the Christian life to require us to benefit from one another.

3.      You need the church to grow, because you are part of the church

a.       You are not just an individual believer, you are that, but you are more than that too. You are a believer that is part of a bigger whole, called the church. You cannot grow in all areas of your spiritual life and development by being alone—some you have to be alone for, but not all. Because on a deep, deep level of your being you are connected to something bigger, something greater and more alive than you are on your own.

b.      You are like a cell, it is alive and it does lots of things on its own, but it is not the body all by itself, and it actually can’t live by itself either, it is totally dependent on many other systems and cells for much of its survival.

c.       You can’t be a person who is growing in what it means to be a part of the body, if you are not a part of the body

4.      Questions

a.       Do you feel ready to share the Good News with your friends, neighbors, family members, co-workers and others? If so, what are you doing to share the good news? If not, what could the leaders do to help you get ready and do it?

b.      Do you feel called to a specific kind of ministry inside the church? If so, what is it? And how can the leaders help you to do it or get better at it? If not, what kind of ministry would you like to try out?

c.       Do you feel like you are growing in your spiritual life right now? how could the leaders help you grow more? how could other church members help you?

d.      What would you like to do as a group in the coming weeks and months, in terms of fun stuff, service projects, or evangelism opportunities, or some other cool stuff?

e.       What would you like to have sermons on in the Fall? What about for Bible Studies? Or training for different ministries?

Illustrations/Explanations

1.      I knew this girl, she was always really happy and smiling, it was great. She was blessed with a happy disposition, and that was a beautiful thing, but people always got on her case for being happy and smiling all the time. Today, I don’t know if she still smiles all the time, but I’ve seen plenty of people who stop acting and even being happy around people, just because of what other people are saying. And that is actually a terribly sad thing. I mean really, what’s wrong with being happy. Seriously, just because you’re not happy, doesn’t mean you should get annoyed at people who are. In fact, a couple weeks ago, we talked about that, Christians celebrate when people are celebrating. Don’t take your hard situation out on others, invite them into your hard situation so that they can empathize and grieve with you, but don’t crush their joy so you can feel better about yourself. Uh…selfish much…no?

We Need the Church to Endure (Heb. 10.19-25)

Scripture: Hebrews 10.19-25

Translation: ¹⁹So, brothers and sisters, because we have boldness by Jesus’ blood into the way in to the Holy Places, which new and living way through the curtain He inaugurated for us, that is of His flesh, ²¹and [because we have] a great priest over God’s house, ²²we should approach with a genuine heart in certainty of faith, truly cleansing the hearts from an evil conscience and truly washing the body with clean water! ²³We should hold on tight to the confession of the hope without wavering, because the One Who promised is faithful. ²⁴And we should think about one another for the purpose of an instigation of love and good works, ²⁵[which means] don’t abandon the meeting up of ourselves, just as is a habit of some, instead urge [it], and as much more as you see the day getting close. 

Interpretation

1.      Structure

a.       Larger

b.      More specific

¹⁹So, brothers and sisters,
because we have boldness by Jesus’ blood into the way in for the holy people,

which new and living way through the curtain He inaugurated for us,

that is through His flesh,

²¹and [because we have] a great priest over God’s house,

²²we should approach with a genuine heart in certainty of faith,

truly cleansing the hearts from an evil conscience

and truly washing the body with clean water!

²³We should hold on tight to the confession of the hope without wavering,

because the One Who promised is faithful.

²⁴And we should think about one another for the purpose of an instigation of love and good works,

²⁵[which means] don’t abandon the meeting up of ourselves,

just as is a habit of some,

instead urge [it],

and so much more as much as you see the day getting close.

c.       Rhetorically

                                                              i.      Because of two things Jesus is for us

1.      A way to God

2.      A Great Priest

                                                            ii.      Do three things

1.      Approach God with a genuine trusting heart

2.      Hold on to our confession of hope

3.      Come up with ways to love more and do more good works

2.      Themes

a.       Way/path/road to God

b.      Jesus is our Great High Priest

c.       Faith

d.      Hope

e.       Love

f.       Good works

g.      Cleansing, washing

h.      Cohortative tone

i.        Being a part of the church, communal tone

j.        Return of Jesus

3.      Doctrines

a.       Jesus is our way to God, and our Great High Priest representing us before God

b.      The church is a central part of the Christian life

c.       Faith, hope, and love are some of the foundational Christian virtues

d.      Jesus is coming back!

e.       As Christians, we should continue to respond to what Jesus has done for us

Applications

1.      Outline

a.       Our Motivation to be the church together comes from what Jesus is for us

                                                              i.      We want to be the Church because Jesus is our Way to God

                                                            ii.      We want to be the Church together because Jesus is our Great High Priest

1.      Jesus not only gets us to God, He facilitates our interactions with God, Jesus makes our relationship with God a wonderful and happy one

2.      He is like our defense attorney

b.      Our Response to Jesus as a Church together comes naturally from Who Jesus is for us

                                                              i.      We come to God in absolute faith with genuine hearts,

1.      because Jesus as our Great High Priest cleansed our hearts and washed our bodies

a.       this has to do with forgiveness, repentance, and baptism—Jesus got rid of our dirtiness and junk, and made us part of a new community

b.      however, it is also true, and the Greek is somewhat ambiguous about Who is doing what here (that is, it may be that the emphasis is on our response to Jesus, rather than Jesus’ action for us), that we cleansed our hearts from an wicked conscience and washed our bodies in baptism, which is a way of saying that we repented from our evil ways of thinking and acting when we turned to Christ in faith and got baptized.

2.      This we do because of what Jesus has done

3.      But we also do this together, we come to God together, we worship God through Jesus together. We don’t come to God in sure faith only on our own, we come to God with sure faith together as well, and especially together at times

                                                            ii.      We hold on to our Christian commitment together to put our hope in God without wavering

1.      On top of the fact that Jesus is representing us, is the fact that God is faithful, we know that His promises will be kept

2.      Being a Christian has always meant openly admitting that you are with Jesus and hoping in His return and His work for you

3.      This is something we do in front of one another and together with one another, being a Christian means being a part of the Christian community.

4.      Moreover, we need to be this community, we need to support and strengthen one another in the faith and in the hope. The truth is, one of the reasons that some of your friends will go away to college and ditch Jesus, is not just because their faith was not genuine or strong, but because one of the most important things that people should do to get ready for college is look up and find out where the good and solid Gospel preaching churches are, because we need to be a part of the community, because the church helps us to hold on and maintain through trials the faith that God has graciously given to us.

                                                          iii.      We think about how to pump each other up to love more and do more good

1.      This actually is a very natural response to Jesus being our Way to and High Priest before God, because Jesus loved us and did good things for us, so we should naturally be trying to imitate His example, on top of the fact that we want to go to God with love and good works to offer Him as a sacrifice, plus, although Jesus certainly can and will and in fact already has offered our one and only needed sacrifice before God, when He died on the cross, do we really want Him to always have to defend us, wouldn’t it be nice if He didn’t have to beg for us so often, that is to say, while Jesus’ dead covered and removed all our sins, do we want to treat Jesus with contempt by taking advantage of His love and good works for us?

2.      This actually requires us to keep meeting up together,

a.       The truth is this is an easy habit to lose, and a harder one to gain, especially when life is crazy.

3.      This actually requires us to interact with each other, urging one another to be a part of the church

4.      This actually should be more and more important to us

a.       We sometimes think it is not more important, but in fact it should be getting more and more important. Sometimes we think that when Jesus comes back all our troubles will end, so if He is getting back soon, then we don’t need the church as much. But that is not completely true, because while Jesus will be back soon, He wants us ready and waiting with gifts of love and good works to give to Him and God, our rewards are dependent on our conduct, which means that Jesus coming back soon shortens the amount of time we have to accrue eternal rewards for ourselves.

2.      All in all, in a way, not embracing being part of the church and responding to what Jesus has done for us in the three ways this passage describes, is really a surrendering of blessings intended for us by Christ, as well as a devaluing of Christ, by devaluing what He has given us and how He has structured for a response. In other words, saying, “I want to enjoy Jesus and what He provides, but I don’t want to do it the way He wants me to,” is a way of saying that what Jesus gave us as His Own expense was not good enough. That is ungrateful, as well as arrogant, since it assumes that we know better than Jesus was true goodness and joy really looks like, we assume we know what is better for us than Jesus

3.      Questions

a.       Jesus being our Way to God and our Great High Priest is our motivation to do the things this passage calls us to do, how motivating is it? Does Jesus’ role motivate you for anything else?

b.      Is it easier for your to come to God on your own or together with the Church?

c.       How do you think you could help a brother or sister stay committed to God, to their confession of hope in Jesus?

d.      Have you ever thought about how you could help a brother or sister or the church as a whole love more and do more good?

e.       Evaluate your church participate habits. How strong is your commitment to be at church? What tends to overrule that commitment? What about our church makes it difficult to be here? What solutions can you offer?

f.       Do you think about Jesus’ coming a lot? What does it motivate you to do?

Illustrations/Explanations

1.      I used to drive on division street when I lived downtown when I would come back from church. The only problem was that Division Street was a nightmare to drive down. It was totally decrepit. It was filled with uneven pavement and potholes. I would be driving along this road at night, it was filled with stop lights too, and it was hard and difficult, and I was always worried I was going to ruin my car. However, there was also the Ohio Street exit, and it was actually a little be past where I lived, so I would be wasting a little gas and time if I wanted to take that road, but you know what, I almost always took the Ohio Street exit, and do you know why? It was because the Ohio Street exit was a newer way that was better for the life of my car. Jesus is a sort of like the Ohio Street exit, He is New and Alive, He is the path to God that because it is so good, it makes us want to take it. But you see, Jesus is not exactly like the Ohio street exit, because there was always only one way to God, and what Jesus really is is Division street new, resurfaced, and alive! Because there is only one way to God, it is not that Jesus is the best way or the easiest way, no, Jesus is the only way! In our culture, it is convenient and advised to consider Jesus just one of many possible options, but the truth is Jesus is not a way to God, He is the Only Way to God. And it is just icing on the cake that He is not just the Only Way, but the kind of Way that makes us want to use it!

2.      Jesus being our Great High Priest is kind of like Him being our Great Defense Attorney. He represents us and keeps us out of jail, pays our fines and represents us well

We Need the Church to Worship (Eph. 5.18-20)

Scripture: Ephesians 5.18-20

Translation: ^5.18And don’t get drunk with wine, in which is recklessness. Instead, get filled with the Spirit, ¹⁹speaking among yourselves in Spiritual psalms and hymns (to praise or honor God) and songs, singing and playing with your heart to the Lord, ²⁰thanking our God and Father always for everything in the Name of our Lord Jesus the Messiah!

Interpretation

1.      Structure:

a.       Larger Context

5.3-20: Godly Way of Life

            5.3-5: Ungodliness is banished

            5.6-14: Don’t Get Deceived, Expose Deceivers

            5.15-20: Living in Light of the End in the Light of Christ

                        5.15-17: Be Wise, Don’t Waste Time

                        5.18-20: Be Filled with the Holy Spirit, Worship God

5.21-6.9: Loving and Humble and Structured Relationships

b.      Passage
^5.18And don’t get drunk with wine,
    in which is recklessness.
Instead, get filled with the Spirit,
     ¹⁹speaking among yourselves in Spiritual
           psalms
           and hymns
           and songs,
     singing and playing with your heart to the Lord,
  ²⁰thanking our God and Father
           always
           for everything
           in the Name of our Lord Jesus the Messiah!

2.      Themes

a.       Full, filled

b.      Singing, songs, hymns, psalms

c.       Holy Spirit

d.      Worship directed towards God

3.      Doctrine

a.       We worship in Jesus’ Name

b.      While All Christians are given the Holy Spirit at conversion, there is available to all Christians a special experience of Holy Spirit, where He fills the believer in an especially powerful way

c.       Worship, while directed to God, is among other things for the benefit of the Body of Christ as well. As much as God deserves to hear genuine worship, Christians need to hear genuine worship

d.      The Holy Spirit is an integral part of the worship of the Body of Christ, He must be empowering and working through our psalms, hymns, and songs, through our singing and music making to the Lord, and through our thanksgiving in Jesus’ Name

4.      Notes

a.       Singing/songs

                                                              i.      Psalms = psalms specifically, or perhaps songs with the implication of musical accompaniment

                                                            ii.      Hymns = songs directed to God, to praise or honor Him, not necessarily joyful

                                                          iii.      Songs = perhaps more poetic, also in praise

Applications

1.      Outline

a.       We Need the Church: to fully benefit from worship

                                                              i.      Blessing from others

                                                            ii.      Blessing to others

                                                          iii.      To hear God’s Voice by the Spirit in Christ

1.      In our culture, drinking too much and getting buzzed and drunk is considered a fun, enjoyable thing to do, a lot of people look at getting drunk or high as a way to deal with their problems, our culture wants us to believe that getting drunk and high is a safe thing to do, that there is no danger in it at all. But the truth is far different, getting drunk and high are not good ways to cope with pain, to have fun, or whatever else our friends, family, or classmates may say, the Bible is clear, don’t get drunk. Getting drunk and high has actually the exact opposite tendency, it does not save you, it destroys you, it doesn't keep you safe, it puts you in danger, getting drunk or high doesn’t help you get closer to God, it pulls you farther away from Him. And if you want to know the real problem with getting drunk and/or high, that is where it lies, the fact that it pulls you away from living for God, the fact that it is what takes a controlling influence over your thoughts, emotions, and actions, and not the Holy Spirit.

2.      If you really want to deal with your problems and have a good time and draw closer to God, booze and drugs won’t do it for you, you need the Holy Spirit, you need a special filling of Your God Who Lives in You. See being full of the Holy Spirit is not similar to being drunk in that you trip and fall and slur your words. What being filled with the Holy Spirit means is that the Holy Spirit is especially present in you, filling you, empowering, guiding you in everything, what it has in common with being drunk is not the outward form, but instead that just like alcohol or drugs have a controlling and warping influence on you when you use them, the Holy Spirit needs to have a controlling and shaping influence in you all the time.

b.      We need the Church to worship by the Holy Spirit

                                                              i.      Now, what does it look like to have the Holy Spirit having a controlling and shaping influence in your life, well the first thing that Paul goes to is not what you would expect. It is not doing miracles, speaking in tongues, having a supernatural love or peace, instead it is corporate worship.

                                                            ii.      The truth is that we don’t just need the church, to worship together as the church to fully be blessed and be a blessing and hear from God clearly, we need it because the Holy Spirit in us wants it, is pushing us towards it—we need it because the Holy Spirit filling us will naturally result in it, we need it because otherwise we will be fighting the work and leadership of the Holy Spirit Who lives inside us

                                                          iii.      While it is true that we can and should genuinely worship God on our own, and sometimes it is even more important to be alone with God, it is not the only thing we need, we also need to worship God together, to have the Holy Spirit fill us as we sing to be empowered to genuinely worship God.

                                                          iv.      Hopefully all us have experienced what it is like to have the Holy Spirit especially present in a worship service. When He comes He makes our worship more natural, more genuine, more passionate. While He can and thankfully does come on us in that way on our own, He also comes on us in that way when we are together, filled with the Holy Spirit. The truth is being in a room worshipping with other people who are filled with the Holy Spirit makes us desire to be filled more and makes us more receptive to His movement and filling.

c.       We need the church to worship, because it is all about God

                                                              i.      The Holy Spirit will make everything all about God the Father and God the Son, Jesus Christ, because He is God. He is humble. He is not about to get up and start singing His Own praises, no, He is going to give most of the focus, credit, and glory to the Father and the Son

                                                            ii.      While we can and should worship and be all about God on our own, God wants to not just hear it coming from you alone somewhere all the time, He wants that, but He also wants to hear genuine worship coming from the people He has saved as a group, He loves to hear worship come from different people from different places and cultures joined in Jesus’ Name to glorify Him through singing, through worshipping, through growing, through blessing and being blessed by one another

                                                          iii.      The truth is that ultimately the reason why we need the Church is because our lives and our worship are not about us, they are about the Holy Trinity! We exist for God’s glory and pleasure, not our own. Is worshipping together in the Holy Spirit a huge blessing? Yes. do we hear God’s voice especially clearly in corporate worship? Yes? Is worshipping together something that the Holy Spirit is driving us to do? Yes. Are we more likely to get full of the Holy Spirit in a group setting? Yes. But at the end of the day, what do we care, if we are not really feeling the driving force of the Holy Spirit pushing us towards worshipping God?

1.      If coming to church is not about God, what do you think it’s about? Yeah, you can and should come to church because you need it to grow and worship and live fully by the Holy Spirit, because often you need it to get filled with the Holy Spirit. But none of that matters, if it’s not ultimately about worshipping God.

2.      You need to worship at church and be a part of our group worship, because that is what God wants, it is how God is glorified,

                                                          iv.      Note that it talks about praising God, singing to God, thanking God, thanking Him for everything all the time. now obviously that means you have to do this outside of the group setting, but how can you thank God for everything that He is and does, if you don’t know all that He is and does and is doing. You can’t thank God for how He is working in so-an-so’s life, if you are not at church that Sunday to see. You can’t thank God for growing through the Bible study on Friday, if you are not at Bible Study on Friday. You can’t thank God for getting to church safely and on time, if you don’t come. You can’t thank God for encouraging you through the songs if you are not singing or not here to hear them.

                                                            v.      And you know what, the truth is, sometimes we need the help of other Christians to see new aspects of how AWESOME GOD IS! or to trust and thank Him for all the stress or pain in our lives.

                                                          vi.      A lot of times we sit and think, “man, what am I going to get out of this today.” And what we usually mean when we think something like that is, “man, I’m not going to get anything out of this today.” Well, we’ve already talked a bit about what you should expect to get out of it if you are open and receptive and if the other people here are open and receptive to the Holy Spirit, and in fact for the next few weeks we will continue to think about what we can expect to get out of worshipping and being together as a community of faith. But have you ever stopped to think about whether God ever asks that same question about our church and worship and services. I wonder what God thinks when He asks that question. We always wonder about what we can get out of it, but what does God get out of it. Does He need anything? no, but He does want something out of it. So, the question for us every Sunday and every Friday and any other time we get together is not just what am I going to get out of this, but what is God going to get out of it? Is He going to get genuine worship that comes from our hearts? Is He going to get a group of people filled with the Holy Spirit? Is He going to get a family that has blessed one another as they sang songs filled with the Holy Spirit? Is He going to get any honor, credit, or thanks for anything else He has done, does, or will do? Is He going to get transformed life? Is He going to get a heart more fully committed to and trusting in Him?

2.      Questions

a.       How big a temptation is drinking and/or drugs in your life?

b.      Is the Holy Spirit the controlling influence in your life? How so?

c.       Does worshipping God feel natural or forced? Why?

d.      What do you think you should get out of a worship service based on this passage? What do you feel like you actually get out of it?

e.       What about God, what should He get out of one of our worship services? What do you think He actually gets out of it?

Illustrations/Explanations

1.      Church in persecuted country, singing in their heads

2.      Wind and  a sail boat